Tourists as a class of people are
subject to much disdain. The vilification is popular not only in cartoons
(where the sloppy casual appearance of over-weight and brightly dressed
tourists are regularly ridiculed). Tourists generally enjoy a poor reputation
for public performance. The real proof
of the snootiness is the mere fact that you have probably never entertained a
tourist in your home. Tourists inspire a degree of derision which invites
aloofness. Even when the shopkeeper or innkeeper makes his or her living from
the business, entertainment or accommodation of tourists it is a thinly veiled
secret that they disparage the sight of tourists. Small wonder therefore that as a tourist on
foreign soil you are liable to face a predictable lonely existence and there is
no amount of expenditure which will garner the same hominess of friendly
acquaintance as in the place where you live.
At best a tourist can count on token deferral and polite condescension.
Picture our delight therefore at having spent a thoroughly agreeable
afternoon today on Hilton Head Island with two people whom we hardly know, two
fellow tourists. In spite of being thousands
of kilometers from home we four enacted an afternoon ceremony worthy of the
most refined social foregathering. Initially
it may be tempting to compensate the exuberance of the congregation by
dismissing it as a chance encounter of people who hail from the same provenance. Certainly it was pure coincidence that we
first met a year ago on the beach near Coligny Plaza, they walking their
handsome French bulldog Max, I recovering still from the loss of my own
Frenchie. But nothing came of that
encounter until by pure chance the same collision of people and dog reoccurred exactly
one year later! Well! I mean to say! If ever there were messages in the stars!
As a result it was but a small revelation to receive a generous
invitation from our new acquaintances to rally with them for a drink at their
place in Sea Pines at 1:00 p.m. today, Saturday afternoon. Our hosts, J and A, are a married couple – at
least that is what we presumed; and he runs a sole proprietorship. Other than that we knew nothing of them and
likely they knew even less about us until today. Yet the short-lived alliance had all the
hallmarks of workability and at the very least respectability and promise. Accordingly it was without indecision that we
gleefully accepted our unique invitation and began looking forward to it,
wondering from time to time what was to come of it.
This afternoon as we drove into the laneway which led to our hosts’
habitation, we encountered the Laird of the Manor dutifully walking his
faithful French bulldog Max. The sight
of them instantly raised our spirits as we are perpetually in need of a dog fix.
I parked the car in the drive and was immediately greeted at the door by Her
Ladyship, an eye-catching Nordic looking woman.
We all retired into the home and went about a summary tour of the place,
exchanging comparative observations about the various rental opportunities on
the Island. Naturally Max monopolized a
considerable amount of our time (a predisposition which by the way continued
unabated during the subsequent three hours of our gathering).
It became readily apparent that our hosts – who are our juniors by some
twenty years - are dynamic individuals.
His Lordship easily qualifies as man of many parts having a wide-ranging
personality. Paradoxically I fathom that his greatest challenge in life will be
to settle upon doing what speaks to him most rather than having to suffer the common
indignity of being suited to one avocation only. Such is the penalty of choice. Her Ladyship is equally intelligent and
ambitious though she appears to be more inclined to self-improvement rather
than self-discovery, a thankful corollary to the normal limitation of innate capacity. In either case both are vivacious,
adventurous and determined. I take it as
no small compliment that they thought to invite us into their sphere of
discovery.
As for the conversation which ensued I am poorly positioned to comment upon
the nature of the ramblings except to observe that there was clearly no agenda
and the diversions flitted like a butterfly from one topic to another. It was thus by means of this unscripted and impulsive
repartee that imperceptibly the minutes stretched into hours. Our hosts had prepared a healthy festive
board of fruit and cheese but unfortunately our appetites were then wanting so
it was largely overlooked though the Champagne and orange juice were not lost
on us.
This afternoon’s party easily stands out as a highly singular
affair. Seldom can one report such a
communion while being a tourist. It
reminded me of the pleasures of society and removed us temporarily from having
to focus always outwardly as a tourist is so often obliged to do. The social mix lifted us from the quagmire of
mediocrity which inevitably accompanies people who are estranged from the
humanity of others.
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